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	<title>Kate Burns, LMFT</title>
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	<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 18:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>S/he Doesn&#8217;t Understand Me</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2010/02/she-doesnt-understand-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 01:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you don&#8217;t feel understood and haven&#8217;t for a while, it&#8217;s worth finding out why. You may feel that s/hethat s/he just isn&#8217;t interested or motivated to understand you. In other words, doesn&#8217;t care. While that could be true, it could be that s/he is hurt by something that has happened in your relationship, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Having Patience and Being Clear: Lost Relationship Arts?</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2010/01/having-patience-and-being-clear-lost-relationship-arts/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 20:53:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sound bites, or is that &#8216;bits&#8217; ? 24-hour work days, or &#8220;later&#8221; to your mate instead of &#8220;I&#8217;ll look forward to seeing you later, Darling.&#8221;
It&#8217;s hard going back to the old days. Some say you can&#8217;t. Others say, &#8220;The old days weren&#8217;t so hot anyway.&#8221;
There are countless articles published that say that the pace of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Easy to Learn Communication Basics</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2010/01/easy-to-learn-communication-basics/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2010/01/easy-to-learn-communication-basics/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 20:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Your Relationship Can Improve
I can honestly say that learning to truly listen, and to respectfully consider what your partner is saying, are at the foundation of great communication.
You may think that your partner needs this, not you; and you may be correct. However, it&#8217;s different if you are trying this on your own, without the help [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tiger Tiger Everywhere: Is My Husband Faithful?</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2009/12/tiger-tiger-everywhere-is-my-husband-faithful/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2009/12/tiger-tiger-everywhere-is-my-husband-faithful/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 19:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Even if your relationship/ marriage is stable, and you are both trusting and trustworthy, the media seems to give us the impression that &#8216;everyone is doing it.&#8217;
The truth is that when both partners are trusting and trustworthy, and have been faithful, it is not an accident, nor is it a fluke. Somewhere along the line, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holidays or Horror-days: Has Alcohol Been A Problem?</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2009/12/holidays-or-horror-days-has-alcohol-been-a-problem/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 01:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello,
You may have read yesterday's posting about this holiday season. I talked about drinking, and
gave tips to folks who want to avoid being on the other end of someone's not-so-social drinking
behavior....again.
Maybe it's you who's been the "bad guy/gal," when your drinking got the best of you.
You might be asking yourself how you can get through this [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holidays or Horror-days? Social or Antisocial Drinking</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2009/12/holidays-or-horror-days-social-or-antisocial-drinking/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2009/12/holidays-or-horror-days-social-or-antisocial-drinking/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:47:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[WHAT’LL IT BE FOR YOU?
Are you looking forward to the Holidays, or dreading them? If you answer, “Dreading them,” you are one of the many who do.
Your feelings may be influenced by your current family situation, by not having a family or, by how you spent the holidays as a child.
Many people say that having [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Personal Limitations and Negative Relational Behaviors - Examples</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2008/12/personal-limitations-and-some-corresponding-behaviors-in-relationships/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2008/12/personal-limitations-and-some-corresponding-behaviors-in-relationships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 21:03:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Personal limitation &#38; Corresponding behavior



 
Personal limitation
 
Corresponding behavior


1
Insecurity, or feelings of panic when you think he might leave you.
 
Needing frequent praise or reassurance; setting aside your own needs in favor or your partner’s; believing that you have to keep him happy; talking to others about your relationship problems but not with him; being suspicious of his [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Improve Your Relationship without Marriage Counseling - Eight Suggestions Part II</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2008/11/improve-your-relationship-without-marriage-counseling-eight-suggestions-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2008/11/improve-your-relationship-without-marriage-counseling-eight-suggestions-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 21:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[CAUTION
If violence exists in your home or relationship, these Suggestions are not for you. Call for professional help now: NYC 1-800-621-HOPE (4673); NYS Coalition Against Domestic Violence; National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-942-6906; 1-800-799-7233.
Section 3

The First Six Suggestions: An in-depth process
The Suggestions are one way for couples working things out on their own to address their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Improve Your Relationship without Marriage Counseling - Part I</title>
		<link>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2008/11/improve-your-relationship-without-marriage-counseling-eight-suggestions-part-i/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kateburnstherapy.com/index.php/2008/11/improve-your-relationship-without-marriage-counseling-eight-suggestions-part-i/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 21:50:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kburns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[CAUTION
If violence exists in your home or your relationship, these Suggestions are not for
You. Call for professional help now: NYC 1-800-621-HOPE (4673); NYS Coalition Against Domestic Violence; National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-942-6906; 1-800-799-7233.
Section 1
Introduction
It is my goal, as a professional relationship therapist with twenty plus years of experience, to save your relationship, or restore it [...]]]></description>
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